15 Ways to Make a Capricorn Man Obsessed With You

Is love in the air with your Capricorn crush? Get ready for romance, because we have all the ways to attract a practical & successful Capricorn man.

Updated May 8, 2024
Ways to Make a Capricorn Man Obsessed With You

Have a crush on a Capricorn cutie? If you've got your eyes on this particular prize, you're in luck because we have all the tips you'll need for how to attract a Capricorn man. Discover what he's attracted to and follow our ideas for how to get a Capricorn man to like you, and you could just find yourself in a sweet romance with a Capricorn guy. 

15 Ways to Attract a Capricorn Man

First and foremost, we always advocate being yourself. Capricorn guys love a person who's authentic and secure. But if you want to give yourself a leg up in your chase of a Capricorn dude, these things can help.

1. Show Capricorn You're Down to Earth and Hard-Working

You can make a Capricorn man obsessed with you by appealing to his work ethic instincts. The Capricorn man has an undying work ethic that comes with a sense of duty to his fellow workers. He's ambitious and knows where he's headed since he's mapped out his career since the day he graduated college (or possibly since the day he was born). Let him see that you have a genuine matching work ethic and dedication to your career. His opinion of you will quickly be elevated to one of intense admiration.

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2. Let Him See Your Life Is Stable and Complete

A Capricorn guy appreciates someone who is their own person. He wants you to have a career and friends, be involved in your community, support local charities, and enjoy sharing your life with others. He expects you to have your own opinions about life and any subject matter.

3. Entice Him With Your Independence

If you have a full, stable life and have formed logical opinions based on your experiences, share this with him. Capricorn is going to be openly impressed! He'll appreciate your independence and confidence. When you have successes, tell him about them with enthusiasm. He'll be the first to congratulate you and encourage you to continue your path.

4. Establish Your Financial Security

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Capricorn doesn't spend his money easily. He is more focused on accumulating a very large, gold nest egg. He has a diversified portfolio and strictly follows his investment strategy. Discuss finances with him and talk about your investments and what you do to save money.

5. Display a Thrifty Attitude

Capricorn men find thriftiness to be an aphrodisiac. If you're naturally thrifty and have a practical approach to finances, explain your methods for spending and saving. He's going to see dollar signs when he looks at you (hubba hubba)! That doesn't mean he wants your money. It simply means he understands what it takes to achieve financial security, and nothing pleases him more than the stability that accumulated wealth brings. He'll love that you totally get him in this way because not everybody does.

6. Be Practical and Organized

Organized Capricorn men definitely fall in love with partners who have a similar level of precision and tidiness (Virgo, you're on deck for this one!). One of the driving forces behind a Capricorn man is his pragmatic approach to everything he does. He's driven by logic and the need for an organization. You'll see this in everything he does. His life is very organized down to what he wears and when he wears it.

7. Make Your Priorities Mirror His

If you have set routines that you never break, explain to him you can't go for coffee until you've finished your morning chores. If you just spent the day reorganizing your closet by gathering a bag of clothes for Goodwill, tell him about your methods for deciding what stays and what goes. We cannot overstate this: Capricorn men find this VERY attractive. He'll be enamored of your discipline. In fact, he'll tell you how much he approves of your dedication to keeping up with things and not allowing them to get out of control. Organized closets and drawers are definitely a way to a Capricorn guy's heart. 

8. Tell Him You Prefer Staying In

Homebodies like Cancer are very attractive to Capricorn guys, whose hearts definitely belong with hearth and home. Capricorn is naturally home-life-oriented. You won't find a Capricorn man out partying at all hours of the night (Leo and Sagittarius, take note). He isn't going to let loose and go crazy — ever! At least not in public. He might in the privacy of his own home where he feels safe and protected. Tell him that you enjoy social gatherings, but you don't like to party. Explain how you enjoy staying in and watching a movie or reading a good book. When he realizes you share this homebody preference, he is going to be ecstatic over having this in common!

9. Be Wary of PDAs

Don't think that public cuddling is a way to get a Capricorn man to fall in love. He finds a needy person a big turn-off, almost as much as he does anyone who displays affection in public. Save displays of affection for private times and places. Capricorn has a great poker face. He'll seldom display his emotions in public. If you are angry, tamp it down, and instead of a tirade of admonishment, sit down and discuss what you're feeling with him. He'll melt in front of you.

10. Don't Act Needy

If you want to turn off a Capricorn guy, be a stage 5 clinger. But, if you want to have that Capricorn man like you, show him that you don't need anyone else to feel worthy or complete. He wants you to be self-contained and not need him in order to function or live. Expose your independence with your actions. If he's away on a trip, continue with your normal routine, and when he calls, let him know you miss him, but then tell him about all the things you've been doing. 

11. Don't Wait for Him to Call

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Remember that a Capricorn man wants you to have your own life. That means you should never wait for him to call you. Instead, go out and live your life the way you were before you met him. Being unavailable isn't playing games, it's just a reality when you have a full life.

12. Light a Fire Under the Sea Goat

When Capricorn guy realizes you aren't hanging around pining over him, he's going to step up his game. He'll shake off his passive nature of wanting to take things as slow as molasses. He'll quickly realize you might not be available when he finally gets around to asking you out. In fact, you may discover how this can make a Capricorn man become obsessed with you.

13. Let Him In on Your Plans

Capricorn guys aren't super comfortable with spontaneity, so springing stuff on him at the last second isn't a good look. Everything must be planned out to the nth degree. Share your plans with him. If you're making plans for big changes, such as buying a condo or a new car, tell him about them. Let him in on your research and how you made your decision on which one was best. He'll be putty in your hands. If you genuinely can't undertake something new without planning it out, then share this with him. If you are a list person, let him see your lists. He'll be beside himself and might even show a little excitement, however brief.

14. Spend Time Getting to Know Him

A Capricorn guy doesn't like to jump into relationships. He must first get to know you and understand what makes you tick. You need to adopt this attitude and spend time asking him questions that show you're genuinely interested in getting to know who he is. If you take the time to be his friend first, you'll discover he reciprocates and will be intrigued with a need to get to know you better.

15. Always Dress Your Best and Be Well-Groomed

It may sound silly, but being well-groomed is something of a turn-on for a Capricorn guy. If you want this man to take notice, you need to look your very best every time you meet him. To Capricorn, this demonstrates how much you value yourself, and, in turn, will value him. He can rest assured that you will always be striving to put your best foot forward the same way he does.

The Keys to a Capricorn Guy's Heart

Practical, purposeful, stable, and well-organized. These are the keys to a Capricorn man's heart. If these come naturally to you and you're willing to share them with your Capricorn crush, you could be on your way to a well-organized but sweet romance. 

15 Ways to Make a Capricorn Man Obsessed With You