Pisces Men in Bed: Are You a Match for His Intensity?

A Pisces man is a sensitive, intense, and passionate lover. Here's what he's like in bed and who he's most likely to sizzle with in the sheets.

Updated May 21, 2024
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When you connect with a Pisces man in bed, he's all about romance, passion, emotion, and sensitivity. He's very sensual and excels at giving and receiving pleasure and love. Far from feeling guilt, fear, or pain, sexually, a Pisces man considers physical intimacy a beautiful gift that connects him to the divine.

What a Pisces Man Is Like in Bed

To get a fix on what a Pisces man is like sexually, you have to understand a bit about Pisces. Pisces is a mutable water sign and the most spiritual sign of the zodiac. A Pisces man has oceanic emotions that are vast, deep, ethereal, and constantly in flux. He's sensitive and receptive, and he soaks up the emotions and feelings that surround him and echoes them back. And he brings all this to the bedroom.

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Romance, Love, & Sex Are One and the Same to a Pisces Man

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A Pisces man doesn't recognize any distinction between romance, love, and sex; they're all rolled up into one and can't be separated, as far as he's concerned. He's a man who opens his heart and soul to his lover. He idealizes love, and to him, sex is the ultimate expression of love. He yearns for the euphoric feeling of closeness, fulfillment, ecstasy, and losing himself in another that he experiences when making love.

He's Romantic, Sensual, and Seductive

A Pisces man is charming and romantic, and seduction comes naturally to him. He's a master of all things sensual. He'll plan romantic dinners and getaways, send his lover flowers and love notes, and use his intuition to discover what tantalizes and pleases them. To a Pisces man, creating love is an art, and he is the artist.

He's Mysterious

There's an air of mysticism surrounding a Pisces man. He's a quiet man with a rich inner world that he doesn't share lightly. But once trust and an intimate sexual bond are created, he'll fascinate his lover with talk about his dreams, schemes, and mystical things. He's a quintessential romantic idealist who believes all things are possible.

He's a Skilled Lover

Love for a Pisces man is about mind, body, and soul: the whole person. He's a skilled lover who possesses empathic abilities that allow him to sense his partner's every need, both in and out of the bedroom. His is the type of love that allows him to experience a spiritual oneness with his partner.

He's Very Passionate

A Pisces man does not just have sex; he makes love. He's flirtatious, romantic, emotionally open, gentle, and passionate. He has no boundaries and is open to experimentation. For him, merging with his partner is heavenly bliss. He's eager to please and open to all forms of sexual expression. Slow and easy or raunchy and wild, he's a chameleon by nature and can synchronize with his partner's movements and emotions. Plus, he's blessed with a vivid imagination and can easily blur the lines between fantasy and reality, then wrap both himself and his partner in a blissful romantic haze.

He's Turned on by Meaningful Connection

While some men are turned on by outer beauty, a Pisces man is turned on by the depth and passion of your soul and the ambiance of romance. So be gentle, open-hearted, and soft, and confidently take the lead. Create a romantic setting; soft music, candles, and poetic expressions are a great start, but you can also let your imagination run wild.

He's Down With a Little Kink

A Pisces man associates sex with love and romance, but that doesn't mean he's not into kink. Also, keep in mind that a Pisces man's feet are his most highly sensitive erogenous zone.

Pisces Man in Bed With Earth Signs

Water nourishes the earth and makes things grow. Earth is water's playground. Earth soaks up water and directs and contains its flow. Water nourishes the earth, and the two together make life grow. In other words, Pisces men fit sexually with earth signs

Because he intuitively knows he needs direction, consistency, and security in a relationship, a Pisces man is attracted to successful, strong, decisive people. He's sensitive to rejection, so he's also captivated by someone who's not timid about making the first move yet also able to surrender to his charms and shower him with attention and gentle affection.

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Pisces Man and Capricorn 

A Pisces man is drawn to a Capricorn's subtle sex appeal. Capricorn is nurturing, fun, lusty, passionate, and sensual. A Capricorn has no problem initiating sex, and a Pisces man joyfully plays along and adds imagination, passion, and romance to the mix. Capricorn and Pisces have great sexual chemistry and share an understanding that nourishes their lovemaking.

Pisces Man and Taurus

A Taurus needs a strong physical connection from sex; a Pisces man needs an emotional and spiritual connection. Taurus may want dinner, music, and romance every time before they're in the mood for sex, and a Pisces man has all that covered. Both are very sensual, passionate, romantic, and caring. Each takes sex seriously and is looking for a meaningful connection. The sexuality these two share can make their time together in bed like a visit to the Garden of Eden.

Pisces Man and Virgo

Virgo is the mutable earth sign. Pisces is the mutable water sign. Both are adaptable but ever-changing. Virgo is mental; Pisces is emotional. Virgo strives for sexual perfection, but the perfection they seek is technical; their emotions are secondary. A Pisces man's sexuality is all about emotions. So while their sex could be satisfying in the beginning, it won't be long before a Pisces man is longing for someone who's less into the mechanics of sex and more willing to let their emotions dictate their moves.

A Pisces Man's Sexual Connection With Other Water Signs

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Sexuality is all about emotions for all three water signs. A Pisces man wants to become one with his lover. When he makes love with someone, they flow into each other, and such a complete merging occurs that it's difficult for each to know where one ends and the other begins.

Pisces Man and Cancer

Cancer, the cardinal water sign, represents active emotions. A Cancer wants to direct the flow of emotions, and a Pisces man is more than happy to take directions. Cancer's sexuality is sensual and fervent, and, just like a Pisces man, they consider lovemaking to be a sacred thing.  Cancer believes that it heals all wounds and affirms the blessing of being alive. A Cancer and a Pisces are sexually in sync. Everything about a Cancer's sexuality is to a Pisces man's liking.

Pisces Man and Scorpio

A Scorpio and a Pisces are equally fascinated by the emotional dimension of sex. Their shared sexuality is all about feelings and emotional experiences. Whatever a Scorpio desires from a Pisces man, he'll gladly give. Scorpio wants to control, and he's all about surrender. There's little doubt that this can lead to some exciting, risqué, and very satisfying sex for both.

Pisces Man With Another Pisces

You might think a match between two Pisces would be heaven together, and their lovemaking would be a delicate moving experience, followed by a sweet kind of intoxication, and it can be. The sad truth is that while each is sensitive to the other's needs and wants more than anything to make the other happy, neither is a person who likes to take the initiative. However, if the Pisces man is willing to take the lead, their time in bed will be magical.

Sex Between a Pisces Man and Air Signs

Sexuality is all in the heads of the three air signs. At their best, a Pisces man can inspire an Air sign's desire to make a deeper emotional connection, and an air sign can help a Pisces man put his feelings into words.

Pisces Man and Gemini

To a Gemini, sex is like playing. It has to be fun and nothing too serious. Love has nothing to do with it, and emotional connection isn't even necessary for Gemini to enjoy the experience. A Pisces man is certain to find sex with a Gemini emotionally unfulfilling. There's a good chance that Gemini and Pisces won't even recognize each other as sexual beings.

Pisces Man and Libra

A Libra is romantic and wants to be wooed, wined, and dined. Sex without romance does not appeal to Libra; it's the whole aesthetic experience of lovemaking that turns them on. Eventually, a Pisces man might find that Libra is too light-hearted sexually, and Libra might find he's not fun or light-hearted enough. But Libra and Pisces have good sexual chemistry because both are so romantic.

Pisces Man and Aquarius

To an Aquarius, sex is about experimentation and research into what makes two people tick. A Pisces man's merging of romance, love, and sex is a riddle for Aquarius to solve. Together they are sexually experimental lovers. Their sex life is not just about experiencing love; it's also about experimenting with each other to reach greater mental and spiritual heights. Their time together in bed will be exciting and colorful because of their ability to experience something universal and wonderful in the other.

Pisces Man in Bed With a Fire Sign

A Pisces man can add an emotional nuance to a fire sign's sexuality, and a fire sign's vitality and enthusiasm can add spice to their lovemaking. A Pisces man and a fire sign can be one steamy combination for a while and under the right circumstances.

Pisces Man and Aries

An Aries is attracted to the physical act of sex itself, not feelings of intimacy. They can get impatient with courting and cuddling and push for the main event. A Pisces man might find it a formidable challenge to take their sex life beyond a quickie, but on the other hand, if he tells Aries what he wants and challenges them, he just might find Aries delightfully willing. If there's anything that turns an Aries on sexually, it's the challenge of being the best lover a man has ever had. When an Aries and a Pisces hook up, the sex can be hot and steamy.

Pisces Man and Leo

A Leo has a big and lustful sexual appetite and wants to be praised and lauded for their sexual performance. Lovemaking means it's showtime. A Pisces man enjoys the costuming and theatrics and is more than willing to play second fiddle and let Leo be the star of the show. These two are both incredible lovers, but their roles and characters are perhaps a little too different for them to have a long-term satisfying sexual relationship.

Pisces Man and Sagittarius

A Sagittarius can be as elusive as a Pisces man. However, Sag is sexually more primal. A Sagittarius and a Pisces can both quickly replace reality with fantasy, so sex between them can be adventurous and exciting. But a Pisces man experiences their lovemaking on an emotional level and wants to take his time and bask in the afterglow, while Sag is quickly bored with his slower pace and is ready to move on.

Influence of Venus and Mars on a Pisces Man Sexually

It's important to note that a Pisces man is not only his Sun sign. The Sun is of utmost importance because it shines its light on every aspect of an individual's personality, but when trying to define a Pisces man's sexuality, it's essential to also look at the signs of his Venus and Mars. Venus and Mars are the planets most associated with love (Venus) and sex (Mars), and their signs will add depth, breadth, and nuance to a Pisces man's sexuality.

Are You the Perfect Lover for a Pisces Man?

A Pisces man is unique. He's charming, romantic, and one of the most sexually creative men you'll ever meet. He'll do anything and everything his lover desires, as long as he knows his heart is safe. The fact is, a Pisces man understands another person's sexual needs in a way that most men can't. He wants someone who can be his lover, friend, and lifetime companion, and that's a tall order to fill. Ask yourself if you can give this man all that he desires. If you can, you'll be rewarded with a sensually fulfilling relationship in every sense of the word.

Pisces Men in Bed: Are You a Match for His Intensity?