After a break up it can be difficult to tell if your ex is simply trying to remain friends, or if they're actually trying to get you back into their arms. Take this quiz to find out if your ex wants you back - or if you're misreading their signals. 1. How often to you communicate with your ex? Frequently - we chat with each other almost every day. Sporadically - I contact them, but they hardly ever contact me. Not often, but when they contact me they're very enthusiastic.