A Taurus and Gemini marriage is possible if you respect each other's boundaries, accept one another's perceived flaws, and work cooperatively towards solutions. Taurus and Gemini dance to the beat of different music, but regardless of how incompatible a Taurus and Gemini are, there's no force in the world that cannot be overcome by love.
Gemini and Taurus Marriage
Joining a Taurus and Gemini in marriage may seem like a stretch. Taurus and Gemini are very different. In a marriage, little quirks that at first blush seemed adorable (isn't it cute the way he clucks his tongue, I love that she's so scatterbrained, etc.) can, over time, become annoying. From this perspective, it's easy to see how their different approach to practical day-to-day activities can become a stumbling block.
In the interest of full disclosure, these are some stumbling blocks married Gemini and Taurus will have to workaround. While this may be true, what does that really mean? First, beware of blanket statements in astrology because they only serve to notify the couple. These general statements simply convey a difference in how each handles their life.
Geminis tend to think while they talk. Which means they speak and act before thinking things through. This is why they often change their minds or make faux pas; they think things out as they go along.
On the other hand, Taurus prefers to do their thinking in silence. They are more analytical and cautious and slowly think things through before speaking or acting.
Different Modus Operandi
Gemini's mutable air handles change well and is a shaker-upper. Taurus's fixed earth dislikes change and takes a firm stance. Gemini and Taurus move at different speeds. Gemini is like a busy buzzing bee, whereas Taurus is like a strong and silent, slow-moving bull.
The social difference between Taurus and Gemini is also telling. Taurus tends to be a stay-at-home and true-blue, while flirty and fickle Gemini likes to go out and socialize. Without some mutual understanding, Taurus runs the risk of becoming jealous and of being run ragged by Gemini, and Gemini runs the risk of being bored to tears by Taurus.
Taurus and Gemini are not a good match sexually. Sex for a Taurus is a slow and sensual exploration. Taurus enjoys romantic sex and loves to bask in the afterglow. Sex for a Gemini has a cerebral orientation; they want playful sex that includes sexual banter and are quick to jump out of bed and move on once the fun is over.
With so many differences, Taurus and Gemini are prone to get angry with one another. When they do, it can get nasty. Although Taurus is calm, collected, and slow to anger, when their rage finally surfaces, it's like an erupting volcano that flows over everything in sight. As carefree and adaptable as a Gemini might seem, they have a quick temper. When a Gemini gets angry, they argue and yell, and the things they say can cut deeply, but they're quick to move on. Put another way, Taurus is slow to anger and slow to forgive, while Gemini is quick to anger and quick to forgive.
Making a Taurus and Gemini Marriage Work
As is underscored by the differences mentioned above, Taurus and Gemini act, think, speak, and live their lives at different speeds. This, in turn, can have real-world consequences. Whether it has to do with something as time-consuming as taking care of the finances or something as seemingly benign as cooking dinner, Taurus and Gemini have differing approaches! Taurus's cure for their differences is to give Gemini some freedom of movement and occasionally get out and about with them. Gemini's cure is to provide Taurus with some quiet time alone together at home. Yes, making a Gemini and Taurus marriage work will take understanding and compromise. Still, most of all, it will take acceptance and love.
Okay, enough of the doom and gloom. There are reasons why this pairing can work! Here's some insight into romantic astrology: Usually, signs next to each other in the zodiac, as Taurus and Gemini are, can be compatible. This works in a couple of ways.
Each Makes Up for What the Other Lacks
In astrology, the sign that comes right before or after another sign usually "makes up" for what the other sign "lacks." So, with Taurus and Gemini, you'll find that Gemini "makes up for" Taurus' lack of sociability and talkativeness. Gemini can also inspire Taurus to be more open, social, and playful. Similarly, Taurus makes up for Gemini's lack of stability, logic, caution, and sense of consequences. Taurus can also inspire Gemini to relax and spend more time enjoying each moment.
They May Have Shared Venus and Mercury Sign Placements
Astrological signs next to one another can share Venus and Mercury connections. These two planets never travel far from the sun. For example, both Gemini and Taurus can have Venus in Aries. This is fantastic for a romantic partnership because both would share a similar outlook on love. Or they could both have Mercury in Taurus, making communication between them much more manageable.
Let Love Guide You
Astrology is very complex, and with all the variables in a person's birth chart, a marriage between Taurus and Gemini can work. Don't listen to the nay-sayers; listen instead to your hearts and let love guide you through the ups and downs of your Gemini and Taurus marriage.